some guys just dont get it. this is basically all their courting and hitting on you tricks.

pick up lines and small talk: depends if you're smooth... and cute. there is nothing more uncomfortable than a guy, hitting on you and you have no interest in talking to him. especially... do NOT name drop. major, HUGE booboo.

email: urgh... puh-lease! i have better things to do than read some forwarded cheezy lame stuff some hopeless romantic sent me!

online messenger: uhm... emoticons are cute, but dont overuse them, they get annoying. oh, and please stop it with the nudges and buzz buttons too, they're really irritating.

text: hmm, it could put a smile on our faces when you text us daily. but dont rely on it. you cant always hide behind text messages and 'how are u's.

call: although we might not want to answer your calls, they can be tricky. nice way to prove that you want to spend time just talking to us, but you’re not quite winning our respect yet.

visit: yup. a visit to make sure you're getting better, or just to say hi to mom or dad is quite touching and shows that you really do like us. it also proves you're not just a 'hey wanna hang out in the mall?' kinda dude.

drive around places: lol. if you're old enough to drive!!! but if you offer to drive me around with your driver, no thanks. i can ask my parents to drop me off.

help with personal stuff: awww… how sweet. not a lot of guys really want to deal with girly dilemmas, and you might just prove yourself to be a caring and sensitive guy.